Yes, they rarely ask questions in return and yes even if they do they rarely listen for long. Those sorts are not the ones I choose to spend time with, for that very reason.
As for figet spinners, I prefer the all metal ones. I love the pretty colors of the rainbow metal but also the weight and quality make for a better spin. My absolute favorite is my rainbow metal lighter holder spinner. Modtly because I smoke and always have a lighter on me, so that means I always have a spinner too. I also like that it's 2 points spinning instead of 3, it's just more comfortable in my little hands. I also have a metal figet that folds in on itself which is fun.
Sometimes with choice overwhelm I'll just start saving things to an Amazon list, then come back to the list later and narrow down my choices.